Write For My Self

Not everyone deserve you You give a lot Your time Your attention your energy You show up for people even when you're tired. You listen You care You try understand and not everyone does the same for you. some people take what you give like it's nothing special Like it's normal. Like you will always be there no matter what they do. so they stop trying. They stop apreciating you. Thet get comfortable with your presence. and that's when thing changes. Because you start to notice it. Rhe effort is one-side. The care feels unbalanced. The respect slowly dissapears. and the truth becomes clear Not everyone deserve you. Not everyone deserves : Your patience Your kindness. your loyalty Some people only value you when you're gone. And by then... It's already too late

Why?? Agar ketika dia memberi investasi, padamu dia merasa bangga. Tidak merasa dirugikan dan lari dari perannya. because He will give you princess treatment." Because He knows how treat his partner with the utmost respect and be dependable. Menikahlah dengan laki-laki yang punya PROVIDER MINDSET. Bukan yang merasa terbebani, saat harus hadir untukmu. Provider mindset bukan siapa yg lebih kaya, tapi tentang cara dia memandang tanggung jawab, masa depan, dan perempuan yg ia cintai. Laki-laki dengan provider mindset tidak menghitung pengorbanan seperti transaksi, dia berpikir : "Bagaimana caranya kita bisa hidup lebih baik bersama? Dia tidak takut bekerja keras. Tidak gengsi belajar. Dan tidak menjadikan perempuan sebagai tempat pelarian dari kegagalannya. Provider mindset terlihat dari hal kecil : Konsisten memberi effort, Tidak menghilang saat keadaan sulit. Bisa diandalkan, bukan cuma manis di awal punya arah hidup yang jelas. Perempuan akan merasa aman, saat bersama laki...